"No one is you and that is your power" You have something to offer that no one else has. "You character traits are a mix that will NEVER ever be repeated in history. There are ideas unique to you, a specific rhythm and perspective that are your strengths not weaknesses". There is a group of … Continue reading Why The World Needs You.. As ‘You’
I need to get the car fixed. I reminded myself as I walked down the long but scenic stretch to the clock -in counter at my hotel day job. If the car is fixed, I can get to work earlier and have more time to prepare for the work day. I don't even like this … Continue reading Do You Work to Live or Live to Work?
A month ago I ended a fifteen year friendship. It was not as difficult as I thought it would have been. In a brief four sentence conversation I realized I had outgrown my dear friend. I also realized just how much weight his opinion had carried in my life and I was more than ready … Continue reading 3 Reasons You Don’t Need a Mentor to Succeed
You sit on the exaggerated pile of failures and bad fortune and declare yourself the King of Sorrows. There, on your self made throne of pity, that you have built out of every negative experience you have ever had, you defend your victim-hood. You guard it with your life. You pay for it with your … Continue reading How To Stop Being A Victim
There comes a point when.. you have tried, so many times.. in so many ways..yet you keep failing again and again. That point when everything you touch turns to s**t and you begin to imagine forces beyond your control puppeteering your life and sabotaging all your plans. It happens. If it has never happened to … Continue reading 5 Cures For The Common Curse
I stared at the bathroom mirror not really seeing my reflection. I saw instead through my peripheral sight, my newly constructed vision sheet. It sparkled with its artistically designed collection of my future ambitions and goals. Little did I know that, according to Paulo Coelho in that fated moment that my Bic pen (yes they … Continue reading You Lose To Learn. But Learn What?
Why is it so depressing to lose one's job? Ok, admittedly, you just lost the income you have been living off and depending on for food and bill payments. (that sentence was indeed quite depressing) But really.. Even when you are still eating quite well, sleeping in a comfortable bed and not facing prison for … Continue reading You Are NOT Your Job!
Negative or unwanted emotions are a part of our experience of being human and are unavoidable. In fact, they are very clear signs that we are emotionally healthy humans. We feel sad when something undesirable happens or guilty when we have caused someone else pain or harm. This is a healthy sign that we are … Continue reading The Purpose of Negative Emotions
Consider your thoughts and dreams a preview of your life's coming attractions. At the risk of sounding a bit 'New agey', this concept isn't very different from the law of attraction. At the risk of sounding like a hard, cold scientist, there is logic to the theory and it has been proven repeatedly. Whether … Continue reading Think Your Way To Success
One of the most common complaints I get from clients is: "Starting a business is so complicated!" If you have ever attempted to start a business, you would have found out that the red tape alone can choke you. The fees, the paperwork, the taxes, the business plans to beg for a loan... It is … Continue reading Entrepreneurship – Solving A Problem